Blue tack. Genius invention. Attaches things, brings things together. Is open to change, movement and shape-shifting. Commits just as long as it’s needed and then can move on to be re-used somewhere else. Allows beauty to be displayed, lists to remind, rock posters to inspire, and gaps to fill. And when you’re ready to pick up your life and move on, it can come with you. It’s not too expensive either.
Friendliness is just like that. Warm and pliable. Handy and useful. Brings things to the fore in a good way.
One of my students was a travelling Japanese woman in her late 60s. She’d arrived in Australia on a great late adventure. Her first time outside of Japan and one of few times outside her own little village. I got the blue tack out to attach a map of the world to the wall, so the students could show each other where they’d come from. She was less interested in the map than the blue tack. Fascinated in fact. I bought her some to take back to Japan, sure that she’d find it (or its equivalent form) somewhere near her place. She was very excited with this new discovery.
I digress. Except to note that blue tack, like friendliness, can be passed on, shared, and used again and again. And even its pale blue colour is calming.
I’ve got people in my life like that. Pliable, reassuring and problem-solvers. Some of them set the standard for friendliness and kindness. They reach out to people and make them feel included and welcome. They show me how it’s possible to do this effortlessly and without commitment. They show me that it’s actually more important than turning away or keeping quiet. I’m really proud to know them and aspire to be more like that.
So now, I just need to get my own packet of blue tack and start using it. Not just for myself but for others too.
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